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Relationship Marketing in a New Media World

The way we do business is changing. As consumers, we demand more from the companies we deal with, and as business owners we have to change our practices to satisfy those demands.

As an example, the time-honored sales process has evolved considerably over the past few decades. Salespeople (a proud profession, make no mistake) used to be able to spend all of their time trying to “close” a sale, and had a great deal of success by playing the numbers and shattering a customer’s objections with little regard for the way the customer felt about them. And so, salespeople got a bad reputation. To this day, most people can’t even say the word “salesman” without getting a bad taste in their mouth.

Indeed, things have changed. These days, smart salespeople know that a customer has options, and that they way that customer feels about the sales rep is as important as the product or service in question. The best salespeople work on making a good first impression, befriending you and eventually getting around to presenting the advantages and benefits (to you!) of what they’re selling. In fact, the “new way” of selling is so prevalent that any time you come up against someone employing the archaic high-pressure tactics of old, it is so off-putting that you head straight for their competition without a moment’s hesitation.

In the same way that sales has seen a lot of evolution, so has marketing. In the case of marketing though, things seem to veering off into several different directions at once. I’m referring to marketing in the broadest sense, including advertising, traditional and online methods. One common theme these days though, is that of relationship marketing.

To many of my faithful readers, this is old news. Many of the readers of this blog are solo-practitioners themselves, and already subscribe to the belief that being yourself, staying in touch and actually joining your community of customers and fans is the best practice. In case you’re visiting my blog for the first time, I can say that I am indeed one of these proponents of what I now call “Relationship Marketing.” I didn’t coin the term, nor do I plan to lay claim to it, but it’s a nice way of referring to the act of staying in touch with your customers and turning them into fans; a major part of the mission at Tell Ten Friends.

I have the stats to prove that I draw more site visitors with my blog posts than I do with the rest of my site content (the “sales-y stuff”) and almost everyday I meet a “newbie” to the idea of blogging that appreciates my candor and my personal approach to blogging, which happens to be one of the main ways I market myself and the services at Tell Ten Friends. (Catch that? Subtle, huh?)

Eight short months ago when I started blogging, I was just a fledgling online marketer, without any clear goals or direction (and a day job). Now, I blog for business’ sake, and I like to think that not much (about my methods at least) has changed. Sure, everyday I learn more about what I’m talking about, from the likes of Mack Collier, Ann Handley and the crew at Marketing Profs, Darren Barefoot (A fellow Vancouverite who I’d like to meet but haven’t had the pleasure as yet), Jeremy Pepper, Andrea Weckerle, Mike Sansone, David Meerman Scott, Tara Hunt and many, many others. (I’m a bit of an addict, so much so that a day or two away from Bloglines and I suffer withdrawals) Most of these folks blog as a way of promoting their business, either directly on indirectly, and even though the blogosphere grows by leaps and bounds daily, we are all still early adopters. In fact as Steve Rubel reports, just 5.8% of all Fortune 500 companies blog, and on the sliding scale, they are the more active ones.
As big a fan I am of blogging, it is far from the only way to maintain a relationship with your client base, and keep them coming back for more. The best way is to speak with them in person (and really listen!) and the methods get less and less effective as they get less personal, although any effort on this front is better than nothing. Example: A hand-written note has more value that a form letter; a personal email will have more impact than a mass newsletter (personalized though it may be) and so forth. Still, some of us enjoy very large client bases, and require the help of technology to interact with all of them.

That, Dear Friends, is why I started Tell Ten Friends. Because as the world of business gets ever more diluted with competition and choices for the consumer, businesses are going to have to do more to stay in touch and add value to their existing customers. With all of the technology available today, you simply need to add a few ounces of care and concern and maybe a few helpings of time, you have a recipe that will keep your customers happy, and maybe give them enough reason to tell ten friends.

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5 Responses to “Relationship Marketing in a New Media World”

  1. CategoriesRyan says:

    Well said, Mr Behan. Very well said.

  2. CategoriesAndrea Weckerle says:

    It’s a two-way street, isn’t it? We all learn from each other, as it should be (I learned a lot from your Squidoo lens!). Btw, happy belated 30th — reading Alex’s blog, it sounded like you had a blast.

  3. CategoriesJordan Behan says:

    Thanks Andrea!

    Folks, that Squidoo lens is here:

    http://www.squidoo.com/jordanbehan

  4. CategoriesBecky Carroll says:

    Thanks, Jordan, for the post on relationship marketing. Having been in that world for awhile now (I was with the Peppers and Rogers Group, 1to1 Marketing, for some time), I feel the reason the more personal methods of sales work is twofold. First, people want to know that you are interested in them as a person, not just as a potential sales number. Second, the more personal methods of sales encourage a two-way dialogue. Old methods of sales and marketing were very one-way, and it is tough to keep a one-way relationship going!

  5. CategoriesJordan says:

    Becky, I agree with you completely about relationship selling.

    My business, as an example is very competitive, and my clients have all come as a result of a sincere expression of the fact that I can help them with what they need.

    And that can’t be possible without plenty of exploration first.